I’m in high school and I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year . I didn’t know up until recently that his mom was my counselor when I was in Elementary school. After she remembered who I was , she began to HATE me. Supposedly , I was a “bad, but smart” kid , and she claimed to have disliked me then as well. Note ... She hasn’t spoken to or seen me in almost 9 years ... She still judged me , and hated me. She is a stuck up, boujie lady, and constantly looks down on me ... I’d be on the phone and I’d hear “ You still on the phone with that girl” or “Get off the phone with that lil girl “. She knew my name , she just refused to call me it . I am smart , mature , respectful, friendly , pretty, and a quite likable person. But she just didn’t like me . About a month ago, he invited me to the movies with his family . I showed up , dressed very formal to impress , I acknowledged her and she was very short with me . After the movie I thanked her and her husband for inviting me and she chuckled and said “ Yeah, okay”. My boyfriend later texted me saying “she said she likes you but she didn’t like your 2 nose rings “. Though they are just piercings, they make me different and who I am. I thought about removing them for her liking . But I realized it wasn’t my nose rings that she didn’t like, it was me. . I CANT PLEASE THIS LADY. . I came to realization that as long as she isn’t affecting our relationship, there is no reason for me to kiss her ass , and beg for her approval ..