let me start out with this; I am in no way attracted to my X, I will NEVER consider reconciliation, he is litterally the worst. My X husband and I have two children together under the age of 10. During our marriage we also became the legal guardians of my niece while she was in high school. After we separated I found out he was sleeping with her while she was in high school and he had even given her a promise ring (he is 11 years older than her and knew her since she was 5 uears old). I also found out he tried sleep with another one of my nieces when he was 18 and she was 13. I doubt they are the only ones. He is getting away with it because my niece (the one he gave a promise ring to) doesn't want to go through testifying, she just wants to run away from it and the other niece is deceased. On top of this, he is also a skilled mental/emotional abuser and manipulator. AND, his sister lost her teaching license because she is a convicted child sex offender. ALSO! He is a COP. Basically, my x is a monster and the odds of having two siblings out of 4 children be pedophiles are astronomical... unless there is an environmental contributing element. I like my X's new girlfriend, and she has the most adorable baby girl. I have tried to warn one other of his girlfriend's and she basically just thought I was crazy until after they broke up. I wouldn't bother warning her because He is likely to sabatoge the relationship on his own but now it looks like they are moving in together and I worry that he will harm her child. I feel like anything I say will fall on deaf ears, only prevent me from being in a position to help her later and result in my x retaliating in me in some way. I am not sure what to do...