My fiancé has a lot of friends, the invite list is out of control. I feel like it’s not my wedding day but a party for him. I tried, a bunch of different ways to have him cut it down but I just hit a wall.

Update - 7/25/2018. Everyone (my parents, his parents and fiancé) cut down their list. My dad stepped in and pointed out several ppl my mom added that they knew weren’t coming. And my dad said “it’s your wedding, I’ve want to this, I don’t care how many ppl”

My fiancé’s parents spoke with him - guys just don’t get it.