I was talking to my mom on the phone a little bit ago and she told me to get gender neutral stuff like stroller, car seat, high chair, etc so I can use it for all my children to come. However, I really love all the colorful stuff, the black/white/grey stuff is kind of boring to me, and I’m afraid if i get red stuff to keep it “gender neutral” and end up having a girl people will still think its a boy. So is it better to get gender neutral stuff or should I do the colorful pink/blue stuff?