So I’ve been with my SO almost 3 years now. We live together, have an 18 month old baby girl, all is good.

However, I feel as if he’s not the guy for me forever. I honestly think if we didn’t have our wee girl then we wouldn’t be together. We have such different opinions on how we look at life and what we do.

I’m currently at a new job and I love it so much, however it’s causing so many problems with us because he doesn’t like that I’m out without him and I’m making friends. He’s used to me being here 24/7 with just him to rely on. I’m finally making my own money too so I’m not financially dependant on him anymore like I was previously.

I’m just unhappy just now, I look at him and I don’t feel love. I do love him but I’m not truly in love with him and it’s been like this for a while now. It sucks and I never want to leave him because we’re comfortable and I can’t imagine life without him there? I’m just all over the place, my stress levels are through the roof and I’m spending the night sleeping on the couch because of an argument we had because he didn’t like me walking 5 minutes up the road home from work with co-workers instead of standing around 30 minutes for a taxi?

Honestly just so confused. Has anybody else been in a similar position before? Just so fed up now tbh x