ohhhhh my poor stepson

this kid is so hard to work with. it could be worse but omg. I know he's just a child but Hes in a situation where everybody feels badd for him so hes been getting away with so much and it's turning into such negative consequences he thinks he doesn't have to listen to certain people (meaning me) hes using the bathroom on his self a lot (no one is touching him no sexual abuse is suspected) mother and father don't communicate so we have no idea what type of discipline they're doing nobody's working together for this kid and it's a big deal to me because hes a role model to my son and my son is learning more negative than positive and I am very worried. And what makes it worse is how can I complain when me and his father don't get along either like I have no backup or support so old. I just want these children to grow up well adjus. I've seen what happens to children with attitude problems and behavior problems and once it gets to a certain point you just can't control them anymore and I just don't want that. I won't have my children lives ruined bc the adults