Post baby sex life ?

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Hubs & I are absolutely over the moon & so thankful that we are having our baby this August . 1st child. 
As much as I love my baby & I can’t wait to become a mother , I feel as if I’m going to miss out on the amazing sex life hubby & I had. Ever since I reached like 30 weeks hes gotten so cautious & afraid of having sex. My question is for moms who have a small child ... did your sex life ever get hot and sexy again after a baby?? Or is just like how they show in movies where the mom acts like it’s a chore 😂 pssh screw that I wanna enjoy mommy hood & have a good time with my man !! 😍❤️😌

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in the beginning you really don't want to have sex because you're so tired and it really is a chore 😪, but once the baby is like 9 months you'll be back in your groove. It just takes adjusting to that new mom life

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Definitely wait till your doc clears you, and be kind if you’re not feeling it for awhile after. However, if you want a good sex life, you can totally get back to it! It took me and my hubby a little bit to get back in a groove, but after a few months of being too tired to even think about good sex, we went on a short vacation, drank lots of wine without our daughter around (MIL babysat), and rekindled our sex life. After that we were much more intentional, and got back to a fun sex life. Now I’m preggers again, and have absolutely no sex drive😩😩 can’t wait to get back to it again!

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you can get in the habit of not having sex if you arent careful, theb it is a chore. but good communication is key talk about it, i was afraid to try to he sexy with my husband after our first, and all shy, like we had never had sex. but i didnt habe a sex drive pregnant  because i was so sick, ans then after i was tired, or breastfeeding or work. and kept making excuses. so i talk to my husband and he understood he said he felt the same way, like we were different people or something. this time has been completely different though. so again good communication is key!!!

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your sex life with your hubby is what u both make of it ! Children are a blessing but you need to just remember that you have a life also !my husband and I it took a while after our first daughter to realize this, it felt as if we drifted apart sexually , our life just revolved around our baby , which is great we are wonderful parents and love our children but you need to make time for each other.. to say the least our sex life has never been better , even now 9 months pregnant with our 3rd !! just always make time for each other

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yes u want to have sex trust me 6 weeks of not having it u want it

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My second baby did not come from boring sex 😂🙌 
They sleep all the time!! And when they stop napping, they are old enough to be left with family

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To be honest I felt like that with my first and my husband understood but my sex drive did come back. With my second I was ready 4 weeks postpartum 😂😂😂 but of course we didn’t do anything until the doctor cleared us AND until I had gotten more birth control. I know I will be fine with this third one. If you do lose your sex drive hopefully your significant other understands. Some people think it won’t happen to them like I did since me and my husband would have sex like 2-3 times a day before we had kids and during my pregnancies but it definitely happened to me.

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I never feel like it’s a chore, but we do reminisce back to the days BC (before children) when we could do it whenever  and wherever we wanted. We miss the marathon weekends when we would only leave the room to eat. Those days are gone, but we still enjoy it. It’s just different when you have munchkins always trying to get in between you and the hubby. We try to fit it in when we can, but definitely not happening as often as it used to.

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Granted, in the first couple months after baby sex isn’t the first thing on your radar. But that’s a feeling that seems to be mutual between wife AND hubby. You’re tired, you’re learning, your body is healing.... it’s not glamorous. Not saying you WON’T have sex during that time, it just might not be that “hot sex life” you’re referring to. 
BUT— once you fall into a routine with baby, your body feels more healed and rested, etc, it’s totally possible to get that flirty hot sex life back! 
Really, it’s up to you two! If you’re hot for your husband, keep flirting & get “it” in when you can. Quickies are hot & spontaneous, and quick enough to find time for 😉. 
This is my experience and general observation, at least. 💁🏻‍♀️❤️

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Yup, making more babies never got boring!

Post baby sex life ?

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