Fat arms

So my arms (as in the bicep and tricep area) have always been on the larger side and I’ve always disliked them. I’m sure it’s all fat I’m on the chubby side. I still wear sleeveless shirts though some days I feel better than others but having bigger arms hasn’t stopped me from wearing sleeveless tops.

Anyways tonight my mother had told me that I have big arms and it made me feel upset. My mom herself has big arms and she thought mine were bigger than hers I on the other hand thought mine weren’t....I ended telling her well I got them from you ( not in a mean type of way just letting her know she passed her genes to me)

I feel somewhat content with how look (not exactly where I want to be) but when my parents mention anything about my physical appearance it makes me rethink and I get in a little slump.