Treat yourself. After my miscarriage I was still catering to other people. I worked the day everything came out. The day I lost around 2 pints of blood the first day alone. Miscarriages arent cheap, even with insurance. I have 3 years of college. My CNA license. Can understand conversational sign language, korean and basic ojibwa. For all of this I make 1500$ a month same with my SO. However a week after I said screw it and treated myself. With Bill's due the 5th we are in the red I decide for once I will pay attention to me. My SO agreed to do TTC in the next 2 months and I'm already planning everything for TTC again. All that I have done to accept this tragedy has made me stronger. Baby dust to all of you. All of you are strong for what you went through. Take time for yourself and be the superheros you are. I'm drunk, sorry getting all gushy.