Who was wrong

I came home after a long day of working and i dont ever expect my boyfriend to clean up but atleast take the trash out and i pointed that fact out when i got home ( he didnt work that day) he got mad i told him to get out and he wouldnt it was my room and i tried to take him off my bed he kicked me and bit me while i guess i tried to take him forcefully by the neck i was hoping it would make him weak ...... all i wanted was for him to apologize for loosing his temper cause he did when i told him about the trash. As he was gonna leave i was apologizing and he grabbed me by my hair and told me he would dictate what he does and if i dont like it i can leave....... i dont know what to do