How do y’all co parenting mamas do it??

People that co parent and send your kids off with their Dad whether it be for a few hours out of the day (what I’m planning on doing), over night, or for the weekend, HOW DO YOU DO IT?😳

I’m thinking about finally letting B go with his father for a few hours out of the day, and gradually building up from there, but it gives me anxiety even thinking about it. I know that’s so selfish but I’ve never had to “share” him with anyone before so it’s going to be hard, I’ve even talked myself out of it quite a bit, but I know it will be good for everybody and quite frankly his Dad hasn’t given me a reason to not trust him with B these days.

**And this is after a year of him not being in our sons life, we got back into contact a few months ago and it’s been going super good, it’s just this is a huge step for me. Also he’s not on the birth certificate so do I need to get some sort of plan written up through court, I don’t think he’ll try to keep our son from me and I’m pretty sure it’s kidnap if he does, but just Incase. I’d honestly rather not have him on the certificate at all.

Oh and my son is 2 (turning three August 4th.)