Okay, so my ex boyfriend. I broke up with him on the 14th it was our 2 month anniversary, I repeat 2 MONTHS. I had never had a serious relationship and he was my first adult relationship. He was always my first time. I’m 21 so and he’s 20. In the beginning i told him before we started dating that i don’t like being controlled. I’m very stubborn and very independent. My mom was in an a suite relationship when i was younger and he tried to control her and i always promised myself i would never get in a situation like that. So everything was perfect, he was very sweet and we would go do things together. We would go out to clubs together everything, I even cancelled a lunch with my two best friends to hang out with him and once I did that I was like oh hell no, I don’t wanna become one of those girls. I plan a night out by myself with my cousins and friends and he had known for a week. I didn’t have to tell him but I did out of respect because he was my boyfriend. He seemed cool with it. That day we were talking about it I was asking what I should wear and he helped me pick it out and he was like where y’all gunna go and I let him know. 10 minutes before I leave, literally 10 minutes he calls and is like let’s go see a movie I’ll go pick you up. Knowing damn well I have plans, I remind him I’m going out and he gets all pissed off saying I always go out. Like first of all, the times I’ve gone out it’s been with him. It’s my first night I’ve gone out without him. He hangs up all pissed off saying it’s “fucking ridiculous.” I leave it at that and I text him and let him know I had already told him and he had already known about it. We fast forward to Monday. He still pissed about me going out and we were arguing over little things. Come Wednesday and we’re texting. He says he want to have a dos xx and I was like well aren’t you about to go to work? Its noon and he goes off saying I’m a drunk and an alcoholic, that I go out all the time that I can’t tell him anything about drinking because I do it too. So best believe I put him in his place real quick. I let him know that he’s not my dad, and I reminded him I’m 21 years old and I don’t go out every day because I have school Monday through Friday along with work. That I definitely don’t drink everyday either, I barley drink as a matter of fact. Let’s just say he got mad that I stood up for myself and I honestly tried to let it go. But then I got a DM from a girl saying he recently liked her on tinder and that when I asked him about it he got so defensive driving tried to make it seem like I’m the one that’s liking other people on tinder. When he knows I don’t use it. He tried to make it seem like I was the bad guy and once that happened I ended things with him. I don’t like guys like that. Now he still text me and talks about how he wants me and all that but I honestly don’t care. When I told him I don’t like him being controlling he said I had to deal with it because that’s how he is. Like sweetie there’s no ring on my finger, I don’t have to deal with anything.

I just had to get this off my chest, my best friend is a bit MIA now that she got a new man but whateva. I don’t get why these guys are like this though! Like we’re not your little pets