😔😔 as we keep getting closer I get more and more terrified of going into labor while my husband is at work. He works underground so getting ahold of him isn’t the easiest and then them letting him leave is a big deal. his work is a good hour away from the hospital so take them getting ahold of him getting him out (takes at least 30 minuets) I’m afraid he won’t make it 😭 then on top of all of this if I go into labor before he goes to work it’s maybe them saying he could lose his job. They are extremely strict about attendance. And he doesn’t get any days off when the baby is born if he does take any then that means whatever he takes he has to make up on their normal vacation days which is only a week in July, November, and December. I just hate knowing he won’t be here for the first week our baby is here he’s talked about trying for the day he is born and the day we come home so it’s only 2 vacation days in November. Which is better than nothing if they will let him I’m just hoping they do!

***Also adding that the bosses at work seriously say “Well do you think you really need to be there for that” and “Women have been having babies for years without the men there it’s really not a big deal if you’re there or not” 😡