Is it normal for my 30 yr old boyfriend to be on the phone with while I’m upset but telling me that I’m annoying and hanging on me? And then ignoring me for the rest of the night..

that shit pisses me off and hurts so bad when all I want is someone(my boyfriend) to talk to about my shitty day or something that’s bothering me. He makes me feel like I’m so annoying that I can’t even go to him with my problems