maybe im just a hater

I recently moved miles away from home to come live with a good friend of mines for many reasons but I'm regretting it. she has three kids, messy as hell (im always cleaning up behind her and her kids) and still boy crazy in her late 30's. some days I find her cleaning her room and I'm impressed and feel bad about complaining just to find out she only did it because some new guy she met off okcupid is coming over😒 call me old fashioned but I don't think its a good idea to allow strange men into your home in your room after a certain time at night with your children in the next room. I'm all about dating and everything but this is the third guy in a month and doesn't know them from a can of paint idk what to do it makes me uncomfortable because I'm staying with her I can't sleep when there is a strange man in the house. I need to move out quickly. am I legit in feeling this way or am I hating because I tried dating but doesn't work. I'm uncomfortable even letting a guy come near where I'm staying(her place) her kids are nosey and the house is always a mess and I just don't want strangers being around everyone.

UPDATE: I woke up this morning after finally falling asleep and waking up to whoever this guy was leaving. I went for my morning pee and ended up disinfecting the whole bathroom because ( might offend and disgust you) there was period blood on the toilet and floor😷🤢 and the kitchen was worse 😒 I'm over it