My husband and I have a very healthy sex life. He pleases me like no man ever has we’ve been married for 5 years and I still get hot and ready when he gives me that look. 🥤💦But I still enjoy masturbating and I love porn. We never really talked about either of us watching porn so I assumed he did it discretely and I am discreet about it as well.

My husband travels a lot of work, so one evening I had the place to myself, lit some candles, made myself a bath and turned on my favorite VIXEN flicks. But he came home early and caught me and literally flipped out, like I have never seen him so mad. He said he didn’t like the idea of me “getting off to another man” and made me promise to not watch porn anymore. He’s started sending me sexy pictures and videos and stuff just so I can look at him when I’m doing my business.

I really don’t want to give up porn, even though I love him. I feel like it’s not that big of a deal. I don’t do it everyday or anything but when I do watch it I’m able to achieve my best orgasms. 😩 I don’t want to disrespect him but I don’t want to stop doing something that gives me so much pleasure and does so little harm. Should I give up porn or try to help him to be more open to the idea of it? Any tips would be helpful.

UPDATE: I’m trolling. I keep seeing women post about how pissed they get about their SO watching porn. I just wanted to see if the responses would be the same if the roles were reversed.