How long after a date should you wait to text him?

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Soooo I just {kinda} had a date with this really amazing guy. He came over in the middle of the night (he works late) and we watched movies and then fell asleep together. Then we spent practically the whole next day sleeping and watching tv as well. After he left, he let me know he made it home and I haven’t heard from him since. He left yesterday btw. I know I need to be patient but I really miss him. How long should I wait??

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I got no time to play games really. If I want to text him right after the date I will, if I don't want to I won't. I'd at least text thanking him for the night if I really enjoyed it.
People need to speak their minds more often instead of trying to pretend to be uninterested! I don't like uninvolved people

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You might as well just text him and see how long it takes him to reply. I don't think you will seem "crazy" for texting him after a short time.

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You should text him if and when you’re comfortable doing it because gone are the days where men should face all the pressure of “making the first move”... or at least those days should be history! 😜
Some guys are a little shy and may actually want the other person to make the move instead! So it’s entirely up to you. ☺️
I recently saw a poll where someone asked “if he likes you, he’ll text you” and so many people chose “yes” and I was kinda baffled because that’s like saying “if he truly loves you, he’ll say it first” - not true!!
You can totally text him thanking him for a good time and see what happens. Also, I know those posts exist that say “if you’re important enough, they’ll make time for you” I understand some people do blow off people by saying they’re busy but sometimes 2 people madly in love lol can also be busy to text right away so don’t let a slight delay in his response throw you off! My boyfriend and I will sometimes respond to each other a whole day later lol but that’s bc we know how our schedules are and also we aren’t big on checking our phones right away 😝
In the end, it is entirely up to you regarding what’s an appropriate time to text and the appropriate amount of time to wait for a reply.
Best of luck! ❤️

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To clarify.. I know that it wasn’t necessarily considered a date. But he was working until 5 am around a bunch of drunk people and breaking up fights all night. So I know it wouldn’t be considered a date to most of you but to me it means and says a lot when someone has been up all night working that hard and still wants to come see you knowing that you’re not gonna even have sex with them lol🤷🏽‍♀️

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Most guys I've known enjoy the "chase". I wouldn't write until he writes me...for now (until you get closer and you know hes truly into you)

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...NOT a date 😂

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