My male best friend was my high school desk mate, and we’ve known each other for two years. We are so close that we share family problems and even sex preferences!

I had feelings for him in school, but now that we already graduated and don’t see each other as often, my feelings are not as strong.

But when we last met a couple of days ago, I spoke to him about how pressured I felt about having to have a boyfriend in college, since everybody told me so. He looked at me all in seriousness, and said “you can’t date in college.” At first, I thought he was joking, because he used to tell me how he wanted a girlfriend in college. Anyway, I asked him whether he was joking, he was really assertive and said “GPA comes first, and dating is no more than a distraction”. I was really surprised by that, and he went like “I won’t date in college, I mean...unless I see someone 100% perfect, even that I’ll be very careful about it.”

Guys, do you think he likes me more than a friend? And do you think it’s a little selfish of him to keep me close like this but never make a move? What should I do?