So my boyfriend and I have only had sex once and it frightened us the first time so we have stuck to other stuff like oral or anal, but he doesn’t use a condom or i don’t have birth control because he only does it for about five or so seconds. He wipes anything off just in case but he never actually ejaculates.

after doing this for awhile i did get my period last month but i’m worried and paranoid more and more. I’m trying to talk to my parents on getting birth control but it just never comes up. We are super careful because both really scared. I’m not supposed to get my period for like 4-5 more days.

Do I wait to see if i get my period so i can be not so scared, make him wear a condom for everything, or get a pregnancy test? Just a girl asking for some girl advice :)