So my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year .. 4 months ago we tried anal and it was okay but it’s not something I’d do all the time . We recently tried again a month ago and i hurt soooo bad . I’m traumatized by the pain . He says if i love him I’d be willing to do anything for him but i feel like if we already tried it and he knows i dont like it why is he making it an issue .. What am i suppose to do i want To satisfy my man but i just feel like I have a whole vagina that he can have any time him wants I’m just not okay with anal . I just really don’t want this to be an issue in our relationship .. i feel if he loves me he sure respect my wishes .