so I'm planning to ebf my LO when he arrives I have plenty of nipple cream, sheilds 2 breast pumps one from insurance one my mom found on sale later and couldn't leave the store without, (Medela sonata, pump in style) lots of storage bags and diff bottles to try for the right one my question is I know to feed when he wants it but how do I know when to pump and how much I want my husband to be able to fee his son to I'm currently a sahm so no need for bottles all the time just for dad and visits to gmas house.