Alright ladies here’s the scoop me and my hubby have been together for over a year now. Now, recently I told him how I actually feel about his brother (I strongly dislike his brother due to previous altercations) now as TMI as this is when we first got together he could not maintain an erection, which at first didn’t bother me seeing as I am the first woman he has ever had sex with. Now after I told him this our sex life has massively declined to the point we will be in the middle of having sex and his erection will disappear and he will play and try to regain an erection for about 5 minutes and If he isn’t getting anywhere he gives up. Now this bothers me because sometimes we go days without sex and he’s very aware to my high sex drive so it isn’t a surprise to him usually we have sex at least once a day if not more with no issues and all of a sudden he can no longer maintain an erection again. Now my thoughts are running wild making

Me think he doesn’t find me attractive anymore, and his with me as a way to pass time. Last night I finally asked him if he was ever unhappy being with me if he would tell me, his response was yes. But, here’s the other reason this bother me now again we have been together for over a year now AND THE DUDE HAS NO TURN ONS..... that’s right ladies I can lay in bed in the SEXIEST lingerie and he won’t act on it unless I start something. He’s told me one fantasy, and one turn on he has found, which is me in nothing but a t shirt laying in bed waiting for him.... LITERALLY THAT IS IT.... aside from that he has no clue what makes him horny... Ladies help me I’m drowning and don’t know how to swim at this point. I love this man to death, and I’m not all about sex but that’s really the only form of intimacy he gives me aside from the usual cuddles, kisses, etc. I’m tired of being unsatisfied but I don’t know how to talk to him about it without breaking his heart.