Is anyone else not having a baby shower? My husband and I initially were all for having one but no one has offered to throw us one and we were just going to do it ourselves. Our financial situation changed and I suggested not having one so we could save that money for things we need for the baby. My husband agreed and now I just feel sad about it. I never in a million years thought I would be a mom until I met my husband. So now as stupid as it is, I feel like I'm missing out. I just feel like our little one deserves to be celebrated.