How do I break up with him?

Question

I’ve been going out with this amazing guy for 11 months, but we’ve just finished high school and I don’t really want to stay together for uni. We talked about this, and decided to wait to find out how close we’ll be next year till we finalise things. Recently though, he’s been really paranoid about everything and it’s driving me crazy, and I really just don’t feel it anymore. I know I need to break up with him, but I don’t know if I should do it over phone or in person. We’re not going to see each other for a few weeks, and I don’t feel I can carry it on for that long, but I don’t want to be really mean about it because still care about him. How is the best way to end things?!

Answer

Don’t break up with someone over the phone; it shows that u don’t respect them. Talk to them in person.

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If I knew I had to break up with someone, I would hate the thought of having to act like everything is ok for a few weeks until I saw them again. 
If possible (and if it were me), I would tell him that you needed time and space to think about the relationship and you want to wait until you see each other again to talk about it. That way you aren’t necessarily doing it over the phone but he doesn’t have high expectations that you two will remain together. Then when in person let him down gently.

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Tell him in person and just tell him straight up. I dont believe there is a "nice" way to do it. Its going to end the same no matter how you do it.

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You need to tell him in person. You have been together too long to break up over the phone. Be honest and clear so he isn't lead to believe the door is still open.

How do I break up with him?

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