So just a background I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 22. We both have kids from previous relationships and we’re moving in together in about 3 weeks. Just a little shy of us being together for 3 weeks I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to look at his snapchat, why? I don’t know something just told me to. I found all sorts of messages and then I looked in his messages and found that he was still texting and on the phone with his child’s mother and he did it right while he was sitting next to me the exact same night! So he begged me to give him another chance and he cried and said he would change and he wasn’t thinking and that it would never happen again. So how did you ladies get past the cheating thing? I’m taking little steps and because of the fact that we don’t stay together it’s always that thought in my mind like “what is he doing when I’m not around” but what advice could you give me? I can tell we really are in love and the chemistry and the vibes are real but just how can I get over it completely?