Does anyone else feel this way ?

Question

After losing a baby, does anyone else feel scared to have another ? Scared that you won’t love that baby the way you love your angel baby ? Or that you won’t bond with that baby the same way you bonded with your angel ? How did you cope with it ?

Answer

I'm scared to have another baby. I lost my 9 month old 8 weeks ago. i want to have another baby but i worry I'll see a new baby and only think of my sweet boy. i fear it will only make me miss him more and wish it was him I was holding. I think this is normal to feel. we know no one could replace our angels. I'm sure having a baby after a loss is no different than having more than one child. your love spreads. I have 3 other kids and I love them all the same. but while pregnant I feared I couldn't love them the same but each baby that came I loved just as much as my first. and each baby taught be to love deeper

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Right now I’m in my two week wait and I’m so scared. I’m scared of everything. If I get a positive result I’m afraid to be happy. I’m afraid of the time when people see my belly and say “aww is this your first?” because it won’t be. It won’t be my first pregnancy or first baby, but how do you say that to people? I hate that I have a baby already but people don’t know about him because he was never born. I’m so scared and sad and lonely all the time still and it’s not fair 😢

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i’m terrified of that and much more. i’m scared i’m going to punished for losing the baby and never have another, im scared my so will leave me, i’m scared the baby is going to feel like a replacement. i feel like a broken woman. i have pcos and had the blessing of getting pregnant and lost that miracle. it hits hard sometimes i don’t even feel like i deserve to be called a woman. i’m just a broken middle

Does anyone else feel this way ?

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