Terrified of phantom, chemical, ectopic, etc.

⭐️MerFerret⭐️ • Beagle mama • Lupus & Fibro • 🏳️‍🌈 bi

I don’t have my first OB appointment for another 2 weeks and I’m terrified that I’ll get there and instead of a healthy 9wk baby, I’ll have none or a baby in the wrong place.

Last time (4 years ago) we miscarried at 9 weeks but the doctor suspected that they died long before then. I think it’s just terrifying that my past and present had big things at 9weeks. This pregnancy I have stronger symptoms and I just pray that means the babe is healthy.

Anyone have tips that help them not worry so much?