My husband works a lot and I couldn’t appreciate home more for that. He has one full day off and one night off and he chooses to leave and be with his friends playing basketball. We had a son 6 months ago and he doesn’t spend anytime with him or me. He’s a stranger. Before we got married we spent a lot of time together and after we got married it slowly lessened. Once I got pregnant shy of us going to sleep at night we didn’t do anything ever. I tried to invoke him in the pregnancy and he just didn’t care. When I went into labor he woke up in the morning and took me straight to the hospital, once I got the epidural I told him if he wanted to go home and eat/ shower that’d be fine I was okay. Now I was alone I live in NC and my family lives in Ohio and my mom was driving down as fast as she could. I was in labor for 10 hours and for eight of those hours I was alone. He didn’t just leave and come back. And when he was present he was on his phone. My family was here for pretty much the first two weeks of my sons life but after they left nothing changed my husband went to work long hours everyday(which I’m grateful for) but on the couple times a week he’s off I’m alone. He chooses what he wants to do and that’s what he does. And if he does stay home for a little bit he sleeps on the couch, not play with his son or really even talk to me. I just don’t understand why things have changed. And when I try to talk to him about it he gets mad and says I’m always angry. I just needed to vent and say it to someone cause I don’t feel comfortable talking to anyone in my life about it right now.