Hi ladies! So, I'm relatively new to sex. I'm currently on birth control, prescribed by a doctor and use condoms every time. But for now, I stopped having any sexual activity at all, since every time I get near my period, I always start freaking out and get very anxious to the point I can't sleep overthinking every detail. I guess I'm like this, because many of my friends have gotten pregnant "accidentally" and I really don't want that to happen to me. But I would really like to enjoy sex, and feel good about it. Any advice?