My Step Son

I don’t know what the hell is wrong with this kid and I don’t know what to do.

I have a 19 year old step son who has a lot of issues, drug abuse, stealing, and to top it off he’s a compulsive liar. Lies about everything. Well a few months ago he came back into our lives (not that we ever pushed him out, but from stealing from us, ending up in jail, to leaving and using drugs around our baby he was not allowed in our house). We thought he was doing better. He got an apartment next door to our house, says he’s clean, my husband hired him back at his company. So the stealing and drugs aren’t really a problem right now, BUT THE LYING.

He told a guy at work today that he made out with me like two years ago. NOT TRUE. My husband found out about this and I can’t believe he’s actually questioning it! How could he entertain that idea! My step son is such a liar and he will do anything to cause trouble! I’m just so sick of this in our lives. It’s not the first time he’s said something like this before. Last year we found out he was telling his friends he had sex with me! My husband laughed it off then but I can’t believe he actually might believe him this time!?

This is embarrassing and hurtful that he’s saying these untrue things and I’m so sick of his shit. I don’t know what his obsession is with me.

With everything else he’s done to us I just don’t know how much more of his crap I can take!! Will it ever end!? And why is he doing this!?

The worst part is I know he will always be in my husbands life but I don’t know if he will ever change. So it’s like I can never get away from it unless I just get away from my husband. I know this stupid lie may sound like a dumb thing to go this crazy over but if you knew half the stuff this kid has already done to us then you’d understand where I’m coming from. I’m so sick to my stomach I don’t want him anywhere near my house or my children.