Anxiety about my love life.

I'm a hopeless romantic who's still considered very young (21). I've done some dating around, but I've never had a boyfriend. I've grew tired of actively looking for "the one" so I deleted my dating profiles and cut some ppl off. I pretty much stopped looking. Recently my anxiety about my love life has grown because I realized that most of the people I know who found their "one" say they were found after they stopped looking. I get nervously excited at the thought of this theory being true, but I'm also regular anxious too. I'm not necessarily looking for all the answers from this post, but I just want to get it off my chest and take a breathe.