friends with the Ex

Violin

Hi ladies... and gentlemen*. Guys I want to know, how would you feel if your significant other keeps in contact with their recent ex, and claim to be friends?. Keeping in mind that your partner has a 'soft spot' for this ex. If you're cool with it, how do you do it, if you're not, how do you get your partner to stop it even after you have told them you're not comfortable with the 'friendship'?. (you guys have been together for 2 years, and they were together for almost 2 years too). Thanks and lots of love💚💛