So here is the deal, my husband leaves home in the morning at 7:20am to be at work for 8am.

He usually is at home between 5:30 and 6:30 if I’m lucky.

I understand that he’s tired from running around all day but it’s getting hard.

I’m on maternity leave looking after our 2 kids, cooking, cleaning all day long.

Husband comes home he just seats and sometimes hold our youngest.

He has put on weight massively, he is 91kg now and massively overweight.

He barely do anything at home, just tidy the odd bits here and there-sometimes.

Even the weekend, he’s off, he would wake up at 9:30/10am and still complain that he’s tired.

I get NO rest at all.

I’m doing everything at home and he wants me to go back to some type of work in September but I’m seriously dreading it as I would have to go early in the morning then get the kids from school and nursery and then go home and do “wife” duty aka clean/cook etc

I’m fed up with it...

Is it only my husband being like that?

What can I do?

We are not close anymore... I’ve been trying to push him to start working out, his mom and sister too but he won’t listen...

We don’t kiss, I know he would love to have sex but seriously I’m in no mood for it...

I just don’t know what to do anymore...

I’m posting in anonymous because I don’t want hate, I love my husband deeply, I’m just fed up with life.