Should I just leave it alone?

Se

First things first, We aren't dating officially. (He wants to wait to ask me in person, were talking long distance rn), but he says he only "loves" me and I like him a lot....anyway. I've been talking to this guy for a month. (I've known him longer than that, but I deleted my facebook for a while and just got it back recently.) We used to just be friends, but now it's more than that. Anyway, I noticed and he said he has a lot of "female friends". Which I'm okay with, you know? I have a few male friends so I get it..But with these female friends of his they always seem to want to hangout with him at the most weirdest times...even when he has work in a few hours. (He would of already been asleep had he been talking to me) Pfffft. Anyway, they will hangout at times in between 12 am to 5 am. Last night he said a friend was "stranded" so she asked him to pick her up. It was 3am there. Now, usually I wouldn't care, (I couldn't leave a friend stranded... ) but then they go get drinks together???? Why couldn't he just take her home??? (He told me doesn't even drink anymore..) Idk, I guess I'm a bit jealous..? ?? 😣😔 Sometimes he's tired or too busy to even call, or text me... but he always finds time for these other girls? He doesn't even respond as much as he used to at first, and when he does it's nothing important or interesting..he just says random words to strike up a convo. About a week and a half ago he hung out with another female friend and he said she fell asleep in his car. What should I do? (Btw, He is older than me.. I'm 22 he's turning 27.) I feel like he just likes the thought of having me than actually being a couple..