What are your SO’s faults?

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I’m curious as to what your SO’s faults and down falls are. How did you overcome them? My SO talks down to me, like we are not equal. We have yet to overcome this.

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He's clean but can be quite messy. I'll tidy up right away and he'll leave it much longer. Can be quite moody when he's 😴

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My SO explains everything to me. He doesn’t do it cause he thinks I’m dumb, he just knows a lot of facts and gets really excited about them. And he’ll always tell me when I’m wrong. Which doesn’t sound like a big deal, but sometimes it makes me feel like I don’t know anything in comparison. He’s the first person I’ve dated who’s smarter than me. 
But honestly, I love him so much and I like seeing him passionate about things, and he tries to be aware of it, so it’s not enough for me to worry about it. That’s his flaw, but there’s so much good.

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Lazy. Errrr.... unmotivated. Luckily we are older (40’s) and both have good careers at this point. But it took awhile for him. 
Mostly it shows up in getting things done around the house and yard. I’m the opposite of him. Pretty driven and like to get shit done. His slower pace can drive me nutzo. 
But it can also be a good thing really, because he slows my crazy down sometimes. 🤗
Not cool that your man talks down to you. I wonder if he learned it in childhood, witnessed that behavior perhaps.

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he throws his dirty clothes at the hamper and misses.. he’ll leave the clothes like two inches away from the hamper and not pick them up at all.. if i don’t pick them up, they would sit there for days. i know because i’ve tried to see if he would.. this is literally the most annoying thing ever😂😭

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Mine doesn't use social media like says cute things about me or post my pictures or likes my pictures and stuff.
He use to but it just hurts my feelings and he likes some other girls pictures. 
I feel like if im your wife Don't i deserve to feel special? Idk my self esteem is pretty low so what do you expect.

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Mine very rarely does house or yard work.  it gets upsetting and frustrating at times because he rather just be on his computer. 
also he can sleep alllll day. it drives me up a wall when I get home and he falls asleep on the couch when he's been at home all day so I end up cleaning and making dinner and bathing my 4yo and everything else.  but I can't get too upset... he does work 50+ hours a week . I work 40. and his meds do make him sleepy.  but it still gets frustrating.  
we just make sure to communicate.  he can tell by my mood when he needs to help me clean and whatever. but no way in hellll will he talk down to me.  that would end real quick.  talk with him, he may not notice he's doing it all the time. tell him that you're going to tell him when he does it?  then maybe he will get it

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Mines is just he’s not emotionally open as I would like him to be and he’s not fully comfortable talking to me about things. Also he’s super busy so we don’t see each other as much as I would like.

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My partner is too sensitive. Everything pisses him off. Drives me insane

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My husband doesn’t clean up after himself. Another small, but very annoying downfall...he leaves his clothes inside out. I absolutely hate it. So every time I do laundry and he’s around I tell him that he needs to stop doing it. He never does. So if I’m feeling nice that day I fix them. But if not then I just leave them that way and pair them together like that. So they’re clean, but he has to take extra time out of his day to undo them before he puts them on. So hopefully he will realize he needs to fix them for me or take them off correctly. We have yet to overcome this, but I am stubborn so I will just continue to do it.

What are your SO’s faults?

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