okay, so, I've been dating this guy for awhile and we've never really talked about sex. I still wanna be prepared for when the moment comes though, so, what's the best way of shaving? I normally never shave because in the past when I have I always get ingrown hairs and really itchy, red bumps. I've read that you should exfoliate and cut the hair short before shaving and shave down and everything, but, this always happens. any tips for shaving when it comes to this?