... my husband is out of town 4-5 days a week, gone 24 hrs a day. I work 30-40 hours a week as a nurse and I’m 17 weeks and we have two dogs, plus our already two children (12,4 years) I’m freaking overwhelmed. I’m staying sick and tired and I’m snapping a lot on people and my kids. I have no patience because I feel like I have to be a robot to get everything done. I told him I can’t live like this. And when the baby gets here I figured up JUST CHILDCARE alone to be $960 for my two little ones. Help what does everyone else do?!