How often do you cum during sex?

So listen up ladies, all jokes aside about women being able to cum during sex is a myth 🙅🏽‍♀️ I truly wanna know how often it is for y’all.

I hate feeling like after I get done having sex with my s/o it was another failed attempt on making me cum. Don’t get me wrong, it feels nice and I love the intimacy between us but I’m tired of never getting truly satisfied. I hate that it makes me feel like there’s something wrong with ME (which I know nothings wrong with me, its just frustrating). And honestly I’ve have multiple sexual partners and only maybe like one of them was able to make me cum??? 🤔

Any tips on possibly making it easier for a lady to reach the finish line? (There’s plenty of foreplay and stuff like that so that’s not the issue and I’m very “freaky” I guess so there’s no vanilla shit making it harder for me)