ideas ??

me and my bf aren’t having full on sex - just oral, bj’s, and fingering. I’m new to BDSM and all he’s done to me so far is choking, pulling hair, and smacking my butt. I want to spice things up and try something new either to him or for him to do to me. I’m ok with being dominant or dominated, it doesn’t matter so drop any and all ideas you have!!!