To leave the Itty Bitty Titty Committee or not!?

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Hey ladies,
I have been thinking a lot lately about getting a breast augmentation. I never really thought about it before my boyfriend of 10 months mentioned it to me. I am 28 and measure a 34A if I’m lucky. 
I have been struggling a lot lately with not feeling attractive because I do not fill out any shirts. When I workout or run in a sports bra I’m totally flat and I don’t enjoy looking at myself in the mirror. I’ve always been self conscious of my chest but never overly concerned as my ex did not seem to care. 
My boyfriend has expressed his love for fake breasts and would love for me to get them and has even offered to pay for half. 
I’m extremely active and have concerns regarding bigger ones getting in the way and being a hinderance to my active lifestyle. 
I’m also concerned about what other people will think or say about me if I do decide to do this to my body. 
Does anyone have input? Negative or positive experiences with the surgery or after effects?

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I don’t think you need new boobs I think you need a new boyfriend.

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I don’t have any advice regarding the surgery.. but girl! You said you never thought about it until your boyfriend mentioned it to you. That is absolutely NOT a reason to go through with this. I’d ditch the boyfriend if I were you because no one that I’m with is going to make me feel insecure about myself

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IF You want them, get them.  If you're just doing it because your boyfriend likes them, then don't.  That's not a good enough reason to go through surgery.

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I got mine done went from 34a to 34c. Best decision I’ve ever done. Much more confident. But I did it for no one other than myself. They are proportionate to my body not too big or noticeable just enough to fill out clothes. But the decision has to be solely up to you not about your boyfriend. If you guys ever don’t work out you may hold resentment towards him if you just did it for him. Really think about it

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Your boyfriend sounds like an idiot. Maybe you should suggest he gets a penis enlargement or bicep implants.. sound crazy? Yeah cause I assume you wouldn't want to alter or police his body in that way. please don't do something just cause he's said he likes it. it's a serious decision and will be with you for the rest of your life, as well as being expensive and there can be potential health risks. As for them getting in the way of your active lifestyle I can say that my breasts do. I am naturally a 32ff-g and I can't really run properly or do skipping etc. the grass is definitely not always greener on the other side.

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Don't get them done because your boyfriend has said he likes fake tits. Your boobs are right for your body. Get getting a 2x bigger bra which will give you a banging cleavage and make them look bigger. Dont go down thw surgery road unless you really want too. I've been thinking about getting an enlargement for 5 years now, it's not just somthing you'll up and do without seriously thinking about it. Also, your 'man' is a tool for saying what he said. He should love your body and you regardless of how big or small your chest os

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Okay he should love you for you, but this boils down to what you want in your mind. Put your activities aside for a second and think if you are happy with your body now, or if you would be happier with the change! It’s your self esteem you should listen to, but you’re gorgeous no matter what size or shape 💗

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You should get them if YOU want them. Fuck what he wants. It's your body. You decide.

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Your boyfriend needs to go.
Choose to do the boobs if you please.. but not for him.

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I used to hate my tiny boobs. but at 36 and after 3 kids I love them. all my friends boobs hang down to their belly buttons by now. mine are still perky. they can't sleep on their bellies. I can. they can't go without a bra. I can. they get rashes under their boobs from sweating. I don't. plus with fake books they get hard, you lose sensation in your nipples, and they need to be redone eventually. love yourself! if you don't love you the way you are no one else will either. and definitely don't do it for some pervert guy. of he doesn't love you the way you are he needs to go. my hubby of 13 years loves my teeny boobs. because they are mine.