Love is complicated

I’m with a man now for 2 years and 8 months we have a child together but we been through some things that has altered my love for him. I feel like we are more friends than anything especially since after all this time he seems to not be the ideal man for me as far as loving me the way I need to be loved. But he’s loyal from what I know, is that settling or am I looking too deep into it? I also deeply care for another man that I’ve dated in my past but wasn’t quite ready for. Idk what to do any suggestions on my dilemma ?