i need help

i don’t know what to tell my parents. i think. i might be bi. i feel the same attraction to guys as i to some girls (more towards guys) but i could see myself with a girl in the future but when i tried coming out to my friends and parents, my parents brushed it off. To be completely honest, my parents are very open. And they love me lots but when I told them they told me to “wait it out a little maybe it was just a phase” and i totally understand where they’re coming from and they said “if you still feel the same way we accept you”

but then my “bestfriends” started distancing themselves because they felt uncomfortable. So after a while I told everyone it was a phase. I just want to be open and happy but I don’t want to lose the people who are important to me. I feel like i have a weight on my shoulder that keeps getting heavier and heavier and if i don’t unload ill collapse. And i definitely don’t want to come out now because it’s basically a trend. I’ve seen so many people say their bi just for attention and i don’t want people to think I’m doing for attention especially since there are so many people out there who are truly sincerely bisexual. My other problem is that im aromantic. It’s stupid but I feel it’s an important detail when I meet someone I like because if they’re being romantic with me i will actually be weirded out and somewhat disgusted because i truly from the bottom of my heart hate romance but people tell maybe it’s because I haven’t “the one”. i call bullshit on that one.