So here's the whole story

My boyfriend of 2 years got in some trouble with the law over weed, got put on probation in February. We had been planning on moving to a new city in a couple months. His parents assumed it was my fault and since we lived in one of the houses they owned, kicked me out. Well, since we were already house hunting with some of our friends, I was forced to move to the new city to stay with them at their current apartment since I had nowhere else to go. We got our house in March and he was supposed to come move in with me and them. Come to find out, since he is on probation, he wasn't "allowed" to move.

Now, I do want to admit that when we lived together, I was a bit crazy (like a lot), I had mental breakdowns everyday and took a lot of my anger out on him. Now that we are not together and seeing each other as often, I'm not crazy, I'm not angry anymore. In the beginning of this long distance relationship, I was a mess, all I thought about was him and how much I hated the situation. He came to see me about once a month. Now, it has been 5 months, I'm working consistently, hanging out with my friends, making new friends. We text each other a couple time a day and that's about it. He comes to visit me more often.

He is planning on moving up here in a couple of months but I'm not sure that is the best decision for us. He says he is happier now too but just bc we don't fight anymore.

What should I do? Is the relationship over? Or should I see how things go living together again? How do you know when you should give up and when you should fight harder? We have been through a lot together.