Dreams

This post doesn't really belong anywhere so I decided here will do. I have been married to my wonderdul husband, who I love and adore and have no interest in spending my life with anyone else, for a while. I knew him for years before we dated and dated years before we were married. I just want to be clear about The fact that we are indeed happy, loyal, and love one another. The story/question/concern/thing that's driving me crazy: I once worked with a man who I connected with mentally. Mostly we just shot the shit, we were partnered for meetings with clients a lot, our positions worked hand in hand and helped get the job done. We spent a lot of time together and had the opportunity to get to know one another. Yeah, he was cute, had a great smile, had a beautiful, gianormous cock I never played with but saw while going through his pictures on his phone (he was showing me pictures of his kids.... and yes, I think the slip/"oops I didn't mean for you to see that" was done on purpose) and .... was the most chauvinistic, shallow guy ever (seriously, it's comical how bad he was really) although he was sweet to me he just talked about his ideal woman and it was painful (like go invest in one of those robots). Moving on, I don't work with him anymore. It's been a LONG time. I occasionally have very vivid dreams, and ultimately I generally end up from orgasming from the intimacy of the dreams; generally my husband or whatever hot guy was in a movie we watched together. (No complaint, it's nice). However, my husband and I ran into the guy I once worked with, we spoke briefly, and over the last several nights I've had those intimate dreams, that result in orgasm, with this previous coworker being the star. While it's nice to wake up pleased and without any work needing done to accomplish this, I am baffled and a little disturbed... Mostly because I don't mind the dreams at all. But, I am now starting to think about him randomly throughout my day. This really bothers me. I feel mental lol.... I know dreams are healthy and there is no controlling your dreams, and I push the thoughts from the day to the back of my mind and file them under do not reopen but I'd like to figure out why I'm having these dreams and occasional thoughts.... I think the thoughts are because of the dreams. like I said, I am happy in my marriage, I love my husband more than I'll ever be able to express, and I'm not interested in my ex coworker at all.... but WTF?!