my 1yr old boy always scream and shout to the top of his lungs whenever hes upset. and hes upset all the time! when things doesnt go his way, when i leave the room wout him, when i leave the room while hes playing in the room, when i wash dishes, when a toy doesnt go his way, a lot of things. my husband takes naps a lot and hed be woken up by his screams, and gets mad at me that i cant tell him to stop. he listens to my husband, but never listens to me when i tell him not to scream like that. my husband says i need to spank, yell, and be mean to him. yeah, i do yell at him, but i dont spank him. i did spank him once but he just cried even more. i have gotten frustrated and yelled at him, which made him scream even more. i have been calm w him, he doesnt care. i have tried distracting him w other things, later on will get mad at whatever i distracted him with. my husband would get hella pissed and say im a bad mother. i cant control our son, i cant get him to listen, etc. idk anymore, what can i do?