Is either option selfish?

Ann Marie

I was having a conversation with someone about PURPOSELY HAVING A CHILD and he said he wouldn't care what his fiances look like if he wanted a baby he was going to try to have one. And I was thinking isn't that a little selfish since babies are so expensive. So thinking about it I'm like I don't want to struggle with a baby but then that can be seen as selfish.

So A .) Is it selfish to have a baby on purpose while financially unstable ? OR

B.) Is it selfish to Not want to have a baby and struggle ?

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