so first I have a 3 year old daughter previous relationship my so works m-f 8am to 7pm and some Saturday's. when he has Saturday's off he wants to go spend time at his moms go visit and have dinner which is no biggie but the problem is, Is that his mom doesn't get dinner started til about 7 it would be done by 8 and then he wants to visit after and his mom is also a alcoholic so when them two get together they drink and it's hard to get him go stop SMH. I tell him every weekend I don't want to go because my daughter just got a set bedtime for 8pm. he will literally have us there til midnight and to make it worse he just leaves me and my daughter in the living room with nothing go do. I also struggle on even talking to anyone there they don't know English and IDK spanish. I've asked him if we could go earlier like at 4 and leave at like 7 it's a no cause he wants his moms food I tell him to go by himself it's a no I should be more open to his family SMH I'm also 6 months pregnant and dont want to be out late SMH anywho he just kinda makes me feel bad am I in the wrong here lol we fight every time due to this I don't want to go smh well update he went by himself but I ended up having to pick him up because someone got too drunk so I had to wake up my daughter and come get him. but yet I been waiting outside his house for 30 minutes and he is still hugging everyone bye for the 10th time while I'm on the car with a whiny 3 ur old cause I woke her up I'm over it