this could start a fight....


so, this may start a whole controversy issue here, but, I'm going to lay it on the table.... not saying that I wont, but is it normal to not be madly in love with your baby while its growing inside of you? (yet) I'm very sure I will get there when it starts to move and kick and stuff. but, I'm not there yet. not even close. it's just like, I dont have any connection with it yet. it's just....there. is this normal?

I'm open to all comments good, bad and ugly. just be truthful.

this is my first child.