FTM at 17


I had my first son at 17 (1 month before my 18 birthday)

I've been talking to my bf and family members because I want to have another baby eventually but i don't want to wait too long because i want them to be close.

I would like to ttc again when I turn 20. my son will be 2, we will be more stable, have our own place and car, etc.

but everyone I talk to says that 20 is too young to have another baby and I should wait until I'm 23/24 when a "normal person" would have their first

but I really don't want to wait that long, and it seems like that would just be trying to create a reality that doesn't exist

2 years seems like a good time to start trying again even though I am young

what are your thoughts?