Baby before marriage or after?

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So my boyfriend and I are having this debate. I would like to be married before having a baby, but he wants to have one before what are your opinions?

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I personally would definitely not ttc a baby with a man who wasn't committed enough to marry me. & no, saying we'd get married in the future is not the same as actually getting married.

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You guys should decided together, but just because you wait to have a baby after marriage does not mean you will stay together just remember that. I waited until marriage with my first daughter and our marriage did not work out and he ended up being a dead beat.

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If you can wait then I would. Why rush it?

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After because you want a commitment from a man. Having a baby is forever, if your bf isn’t “ready” to be committed to you forever then he isn’t ready for a baby.

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you should make sure you two are committed before such a big decision. I don't know your relationship or anything but you always want to be safe in these kinds of decisions. You won't want a baby daddy issue coming up later on. But it's totally y'all's decision. just thought I'd drop some insight since you asked 🤗 best of luck to you both! 💕

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I think you guys should decide together lol. We've been together 5 years...not engaged or married yet. We have a baby on the way :)

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I wanted to wait til after simply so I could be put on my husband's insurance, which was WAY better than mine.

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My personal opinion is it doesnt matter to me. Some people believe marriage is just a piece of paper , which is what I believe in. I'm not religious either so idc about what some imaginary guy thinks in the sky. Although I am legally married my husban and I decided not to get married but then changed his mind which is fine. I was okay with not getting married my love for him has not changed. You can be "married" to someone and be committed to that person without a legal document. To think someone is going to he "more committed" because they are married is horse shit. Married men and women STILL cheat. It's not today's generation is always been like that. If you love someone you do. I don't think it matters if you have a piece of paper or not.

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you two should make that decision collectively. marriage is not a guarantee you will stay together even if you have a child together after marriage. commitment is solely based on you twos terms. I have two beautiful daughters by a man I am not married to, but I'm a lot happier with him and him being the father of my daughters than I would have been with my ex husband.

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It’s different for everyone. Talk to your partner and be on the same page

Baby before marriage or after?

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